Tomichael Kitty Alexander

Tomichael M. Sha Alexander, known to friends and family as “Kitty,” lived in the Midfield, Alabama community where she raised her children and worked to provide for them. Public accounts identify her as a 37-year-old security professional whose day-to-day life centered on family and steady employment.

Those who knew Kitty would likely recall a person who balanced work responsibilities with the demands of parenthood. News reports note that her children lived in the home where she frequently visited; that detail, together with accounts that she worked in security, paints a picture of someone carrying practical responsibilities for her family’s safety and wellbeing.

Public records and reporting about her death are sparse on personal anecdotes, and no full, family-published obituary matching the exact date of death has been located. What is clear from reliable local reporting is that she was a real person with children and coworkers who were touched by her life. Friends, neighbors, and colleagues who remembered her after October 5, 2019, spoke about the suddenness of her loss and the gap it left in the lives of those closest to her.

While public sources emphasize the facts surrounding her death, the life she led before that day is what endures: a working parent in Midfield who carried responsibilities for her family and took jobs that supported them. That role — of provider, parent, and community member — is the humane and lasting truth at the center of her story.

Tomichael “Kitty” Alexander’s name remains in local records and reporting as someone whose life mattered to family and neighbors. This remembrance honors her as a mother and as a person whose everyday commitments and relationships made a difference to the people who loved her.