
In loving memory of
Kelly Winslow-Dapolito
March 13, 2010
Kelly Winslow‑Dapolito was a devoted mother and a friendly presence in her Limington community — remembered for her smile, her care for family, and the small, everyday ways she brightened others’ lives.
Remembering Kelly
A life held close in memory
Kelly Winslow‑Dapolito is remembered as a young mother and neighbor whose warmth and easy smile left an impression on those who knew her in Limington, Maine. Public reporting from the time describes Kelly as friendly and good with children; neighbors recalled seeing her and her husband gardening around their home and helping care for the family’s children. She was about 30 years old at the time her life ended.
Kelly lived on Mike’s Way in Limington with her husband, Patrick Dapolito, and the family’s children. In news coverage of the case, friends and neighbors spoke not about headlines but about the ordinary kindnesses that marked her daily life — a welcoming manner, a readiness to laugh, and a presence in the neighborhood that others trusted. Those human details, though modest in number in the public record, make clear that Kelly’s life centered on family and home.
The public record about Kelly focuses primarily on the events surrounding her death and the subsequent court proceedings. Out of respect for her dignity and the family’s privacy, this remembrance emphasizes the person seen by neighbors and friends: a mother and community member whose smile and care were noticed by others. While media accounts document the investigation and later trial, they do not, and should not, define Kelly’s life.
Kelly’s passing left a lasting sorrow for the people close to her. For a life that was lived in everyday relationships — parenting, neighborliness, and the small routines that make a home — Kelly’s memory is preserved most plainly in those who recall her laugh, her friendliness with children, and the ordinary acts of care that revealed who she was. This page honors that remembered humanity and acknowledges the limits of the public record while affirming that Kelly was a real person whose life mattered to family and community.
Shared moments
From the gallery
Words from family and friends
Recent remembrances
Kelly is remembered with heartfelt sympathy. She deserved to be known for a life that mattered, and may her memory continue to be held with love.