Portrait shared in memory of Demarcus A. Cokley

In loving memory of

Demarcus A. Cokley

March 12, 2021

Demarcus A. Cokley was a 20-year-old son and brother whose bright smile and plans for the future mattered deeply to his family and friends in the Evanston/Des Plaines area.

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Remembering Demarcus

A life held close in memory

Demarcus A. Cokley was a young man from the Chicago suburbs whose life touched family, friends and his local community. Public remembrances and family fundraising pages describe him as a loving son and older brother, remembered for his energy and his smile. At 20 years old he was described by loved ones as someone with creative interests and aspirations; friends and family noted his interest in music and his hopes for what lay ahead.

Demarcus lived in the greater Cook County area; authorities later identified him as a Des Plaines resident. In the days after his death, family members and friends organized a celebration of life fundraiser and posted tributes that emphasize how much he meant to those close to him. Those pages and memorials show a circle of people who wanted to honor his memory, help the family, and mark the loss of a young life with personal stories and photographs.

Although public reporting centers on the sudden circumstances of his death on March 12, 2021, it is clear from family notices that Demarcus’s identity extended far beyond that day. He is remembered by loved ones for ordinary, meaningful qualities: being a family member who mattered, sharing time with friends, and having hopes for the future. That human presence — the relationships, the small joys, the plans that were interrupted — is the core of how those who knew him have chosen to remember him.

Those who wish to honor Demarcus can look to the tributes left by family and friends: messages, photographs and the community response that followed. While the public record on the full details of his life is limited, the available memorials respectfully show a family mourning a young man whose life was dear to them. May his memory be held gently by those who loved him.

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Demarcus was gone far too soon. May the love, memories, and moments connected to this life continue to be treasured, and may those mourning find comfort in remembering what mattered most.

Kevin C.