
In loving memory of
Bersabe Rebecca Simmons
December 22, 1987
Bersabe Rebecca “Becky” Simmons was a devoted wife and mother whose life touched a close-knit Arkansas community; remembered for her family roles and the ordinary kindnesses of daily life.
Remembering Bersabe
A life held close in memory
Bersabe Rebecca Simmons — known to family as Becky — was a 46-year-old wife and mother who spent her adult life at the center of a large family in and around Dover, Arkansas. Public records and contemporary reporting identify her as the spouse of Ronald Gene Simmons; she had been married since 1960 and was commonly referred to by the family nickname Becky. Those reliable sources indicate she lived a life tied closely to family and home, raising children and carrying the ordinary responsibilities and relationships that define many small-town lives.
Accounts that document the family name describe Becky as part of a sprawling household shaped by decades of shared history: a marriage that began after the couple met while he served in the military, and a family life that, by the late 1980s, included adult children and grandchildren. Although public records and news coverage about the later tragedy are focused on the events of December 1987 and the legal aftermath, contemporary reporting and historical summaries consistently identify Becky as a central family figure — a mother and grandmother whose everyday presence would have anchored family gatherings and holiday routines.
Because there is no published, family-authorized obituary located in the public record that matches her name and the exact date of death, many personal details that might appear in a private memorial (favorite pastimes, occupation outside the home, or direct family remembrances) are not available in reliable sources. What is clear from multiple authoritative historical and news accounts is that Becky’s life was lived in close relationship with her children and grandchildren, and that she was known within her community by her given name and by the affectionate diminutive Becky.
Remembering Bersabe Rebecca Simmons is an act of recognizing a real person behind the headlines: a woman who was wife to a long-term partner and mother and grandmother to multiple children. While public documents focus on the tragic circumstances that ended her life on December 22, 1987, they also confirm that she was more than a date in a record — she was family to those who knew her, and that human connection endures in the quiet memory of those ordinary roles and relationships that made up her life.
Shared moments
From the gallery
Words from family and friends
Recent remembrances
She will be remembered with warmth and care. May her memory remain close in the hearts of all who loved and remember Bersabe.