
In loving memory of
Allen Anderson
July 23, 1982 — September 18, 2014
Allen Anderson was a devoted father and a student working to build a better future for his children. He is remembered for his close bond with family and his determination to keep moving forward.
Their life, in the words of those who remember
The story of Allen Anderson
Allen Anderson (born July 23, 1982) was a father and a young man pursuing a different path for his family. People who spoke with local reporters after his death described him as a parent who was trying to better his life by returning to school — he was a full-time student at Cameron University and close to finishing his coursework when his life was cut short.
Family members recalled Allen’s close ties to those around him. He and his brother Robert were frequently together — working side by side at times — and those who knew them described a strong fraternal bond. Jekia Elix, identified in contemporary reporting as the mother of three of his children, shared the family’s shock and sorrow and spoke about the difficulty of explaining Allen’s absence to the children. Those comments underline Allen’s role as a father and the central place his family occupied in his life.
Although public records about Allen’s life beyond his family and studies are limited in available sources, the facts that are known point to someone actively trying to change course for his children and invest in his future. He was buried in Highland Cemetery in Lawton, Oklahoma, reflecting his ties to the community where he lived.
Allen’s life mattered to those who loved him: family members remembered his presence, his efforts to improve his circumstances through education, and the everyday roles he filled as a brother and father. While public records focus on the circumstances surrounding his death, it is important to hold the fuller human picture at the center: Allen was a person working toward better opportunities for his children, and he is mourned by family who continue to carry his memory.
Because available public sources are limited and no family-published obituary or funeral-home notice matching his name and the exact date of death was located, this remembrance is written from verified reporting and burial records to honor the life that was lived rather than the manner in which it ended.
Places held in memory
Life and resting place
- Remembered from
- Lawton, OK