Troy Benson

Troy D. Sowell (often reported as Troy Sowell-Benson), born May 2, 1986, was a devoted father and cherished son whose family remembers him for his quiet loyalty and the simple, meaningful ways he cared for those closest to him. Friends and relatives called him “TJ,” a nickname that reflected the easy familiarity with which he moved among the people who loved him.

Troy’s life centered on family. He was a father to two daughters, and the love he carried for them is a large part of how those who knew him recall him today. His mother and other family members have spoken of his generosity and the important place he held in family gatherings — the familiar presence whose laugh and conversation filled the room.

Though his life was cut short on May 12, 2014, the memories shared by family and friends underline a life of everyday kindness: showing up for loved ones, celebrating small joys, and caring for his daughters. Those who knew Troy remember him in the routines and gestures that make up family life — the calls, the visits, the moments of support.

Troy’s passing left a deep void for his daughters, his mother, and his extended family. They continue to honor his memory in quiet ways and by keeping the love he showed them at the center of their lives. While public records note the tragic circumstances of his death, family remembrances remain focused on Troy as a person — a son, a father, and a presence who mattered to many.

He is remembered with love and enduring respect by his family and friends. Those who wish to share memories or offer support have done so through remembrances published on the family tribute page and in conversations with loved ones. Troy’s memory lives on in the hearts of his daughters and the family he loved.