Portrait shared in memory of Stephen William Bockemeier

In loving memory of

Stephen William Bockemeier

June 18, 1948 — May 24, 2025

Stephen William Bockemeier (June 18, 1948–May 24, 2025) was a devoted husband, father, public servant, and man of faith whose life touched his Albuquerque community with steady service and quiet devotion.

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A life held close in memory

Stephen William Bockemeier, born June 18, 1948, lived a life defined by service, family, and faith. A devoted husband and father, Stephen made Albuquerque his home after moving there in the mid-1970s. He graduated in civil engineering and built a long career in public service, culminating in leadership in water resources and waste management for the city—work guided by practical skill and a commitment to the common good.

Stephen treasured his family and the years he shared with his wife, Marcia Elizabeth Hagele Bockemeier, with whom he celebrated decades of partnership. Those who knew him remember a reliable presence: a person who cared for community infrastructure with the same steadiness he showed at home. Outside his professional life, Stephen pursued studies in theology later in life, a reflection of deep spiritual interests that were important to him and his family.

He raised his children in Albuquerque, nurturing a household rooted in faith and service. Friends and colleagues recall Stephen’s thoughtful approach, whether mentoring younger engineers or serving within his church community. His influence was felt quietly across professional and personal circles—through practical problem-solving, patient guidance, and a willingness to lend expertise for the benefit of others.

Stephen’s life will be cherished by those who knew him for his steadfast character and the devotion he showed to family and community. The sudden and tragic circumstances of his passing on May 24, 2025, are a sorrow shared by many; yet the memory that lingers is of a life spent in service, faith, and love. A funeral service arranged by Trujillo Family Funeral Home will honor his memory and the legacy of care he leaves behind. Family and friends are invited to remember Stephen for the warmth, dedication, and quiet strength that marked his years among them.

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Stephen is remembered with heartfelt sympathy. He deserved to be known for a life that mattered, and may his memory continue to be held with love.

Ronald H.