
In loving memory of
Jose Arriaga
September 12, 2022
Jose Arriaga was a devoted son and community member in Hartford whose life—full of relationships and everyday hopes—left an imprint on family and friends remembered with quiet love.
Remembering Jose
A life held close in memory
Jose Arriaga was a young Hartford man whose life mattered to the people who knew him. Public records and local reporting identify him as a 28-year-old resident of Hartford. Beyond headlines, the available sources show a person who had family and close friends who continue to grieve and honor his memory.
Friends who have left messages on memorial pages and community posts describe Jose with short, heartfelt remembrances that point to his role in family life and personal relationships. Those public tributes refer to him with pet names and messages from those who called him “my greatest” and “Mi Cholito,” suggesting deep bonds with a partner and loved ones who continue to carry his memory. Online community memorials for people lost to gun violence note the pain felt by those left behind and the human cost of sudden loss.
The factual public record shows that Jose’s life ended in September 2022. Local news reporting and police accounts placed the shooting and crash in Hartford’s Hillside Avenue area in the early hours of mid-September 2022. These reports were part of an official homicide investigation and later led to criminal charges connected to the event. Beyond those factual statements about the circumstances of his death, public coverage and memorial pages focus on the grief of family and friends and the small personal details they shared in messages left for him.
Because there is no published family obituary or funeral-home notice located in reliable obituary databases that exactly matches the name and a single, unambiguous date of death, this remembrance focuses on Jose as a person remembered by family and community rather than on the public details of the investigation. The public record available online is limited in the personal facts it provides; where family-authored memorials exist they are privately posted and not in formal funeral-home notices accessible through major obituary repositories.
Jose’s loss left visible sorrow among those who knew him. While the wider community remembers the traumatic way his life ended, the more lasting memory comes from the simple evidence of affection in messages left by those who loved him—words that point to a person who mattered in everyday ways: as a partner, family member, or friend. That human connection is what endures. For those who wish to honor him, the most fitting tribute is to remember Jose as a real person whose life was meaningful to others and whose absence is deeply felt by family and friends.
Shared moments
From the gallery
Words from family and friends
Recent remembrances
May the memory of Jose be a lasting source of comfort. A life matters far beyond what can ever be captured on a page, and this remembrance is offered with sympathy and respect.