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In loving memory of

Derick Shafer

October 12, 2025

Derick Shafer was a devoted father and a gentle presence in Spokane—remembered by family as a ‘big teddy bear’ with a laugh and a generous heart.

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Remembering Derick

A life held close in memory

Derick Shafer, 38, was known to family and friends in Spokane for his warm smile and kind nature. Born and raised in the Spokane area, he spent much of his life close to the people and community he loved. Those who knew him remembered Derick as someone who could make others laugh and who carried a big heart — a quality his sister called a “big teddy bear.”

Derick worked for years as an auto detailer, a trade he learned in the community where he and his family lived. His sister described him as deeply likable and caring; relatives say he loved people and his faith. In recent years he had received Social Security benefits because of a learning disability, a detail his family shared as part of describing the person he was rather than defining him by any challenge.

Most important to Derick was his role as a father. He is survived by a 16-year-old son, and family members have spoken about the love he had for his child. Those who shared memories with local journalists remember Derick for small, everyday moments: making someone laugh, offering a gentle presence, and showing affection for family.

Derick’s life touched neighbors, friends, and relatives who describe a man with a warm, generous spirit. While public records and news coverage document the tragic way his life ended on October 12, 2025, they also preserve the details his family asked to emphasize: his kindness, his laughter, his devotion to family and faith. In remembering Derick, those who loved him recall a son, a brother, and a father whose warmth and simple acts of care left a lasting impression on those around him.

This remembrance is drawn from public statements by family and local reporting; it aims to honor Derick’s life and relationships rather than the circumstances of his death.

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Derick was gone far too soon. May the love, memories, and moments connected to this life continue to be treasured, and may those mourning find comfort in remembering what mattered most.

Doris X.